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well done!!

I've met plenty from over the years. If people have no intention of showing up they should just save everyone the trouble.

Party hats and cake for everyone!

Praise the almighry

...I've met one person from this site....but about 30 from the other site I'm on

ive met a few off this site over the years,..

What othet site u on

I've been on here less than a year

im getting older,..but this site has changed

I've heard the same thing said about nzdating....the other site I'm on. I don't think it's the sites that are changing tbh....it's society and what we allow as the "norm" these days...that's what's changing...

i agree,... "normal",...is different for everyone huh

Yes...these days normal is a setting on a dishwasher

Nzd has changed over the years... Especially the message boards

I haven't spent much time at all on the message boards...I read them occasionally but very rarely. I'm usually chatting

Dam!!! I need to be on any of those other sites coz I haven't met anyone on here at all wondering where all the complicated and NSA women at????

I met four from this site :)

Oh I've met over a dozen but time invested vs reward isn't a great ratio.
For each of those really legit people I dealt with probably 20 weak time wasters that had no intentions of going ahead with even a coffee or got freaked by a chat via phone. People who politely decline the offer are not time wasters to me.

we used to be on here a couple of years ago and met a lot of single guys but it was hard to get couples. KS and others seemed to be better for that. having only rejoined yesterday it does look very different on the message boards.

I'm big on a flyby cuppa often, just to check it's a real person.

Very hard to find people on here 3 of people I met on here I met at a party

meeting at parties is good, you can window shop a bit then

Yea was fun diversities is a good place

Its a good place for an orgy casual sex place but i think it lacks direction which is what some of the big private parties have

I don't get invited to private parties being a single male

No ...im a temporary one of those atm

Yea but for u its a good reason its a awesome thing being a father

I hope so....been putting it off now for so long as we were having great sex...

I've found single guys an absolute nightmare and surprisingly more gutless than women. Me & my lady friends have often searched for a guy and almost everyone has dropped nuts once you mention a quick chat via phone.
Few months back I thought we had the right guy so I passed my lady number to him, he then proceeded to sattempt in cutting me out of it unreal stuff.
He could have had her solo on a regular basis if he weren't so socially inept.
Now he jerks off over porn and misses out. I find older guys are genuine no bullshit but the younger bracket we seeked were these new melenial wimps!
Imagine WW3 breaking out with these types

Not all of us single guys are gutless I'm not

I believe you. As a confident straight up guy I honestly get confused at the mindset of these people. If you don't mind older women then message me as I'm down Christchurch in few weeks.

Wish there were offers like that here in Timaru...

What's the other site,?

Hi. What site?

Sound like back side to me....

Good one I experienced the same when living in Auckland.. its great when it happens aye.. no such luck yet in Chch but Ive only been here for a couple weeks. Fingers crossed

Hi. What site is that?

I certainly dont mind older women and ALWAYS follow through on arrangements made. If you guys are ever in Chch again..