Descrete fun, No hang ups

Mid 50's , but look and act younger than our age, outgoing, in good shape and good health and expect the same, prefer smooth!. Simply looking for fun and friendship with fit couples and singles. If you are a couple you MUST firstly be very secure in your own relationship.
We usually go out and then look to have an unplanned evenings, with couples and/or singles at the end of the night. Chance encounters at Red16 bar, on New Street in Nelson City, which we frequent often. Suggest this would be a great place on Friday and Saturday nights for like minded couples and singles to meet. Not into endless emails and over planned arrangements and not likely to respond to many "single sentence" messages. We enjoy the bump into, have a great night and see what surprises are installed as the night progresses. The not knowing and flirting is enchanting, exciting and fun. Prefer shaven or well trimmed. We expect clean, tidy and respectful people in return for the same.