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How do you find PrEP and keeping it hidden? I've been thinking about dose on demand but worried about keeping its use away from the wife's attention.

Your local sexual health clinic can help

Look up burnettfoundation.org.nz
They have an office in Auckland. They'll be able to guide you on getting a prescription. You'll have to be creative to keep PrEP hidden from your Mrs. I have a Makita cordless drill case that's lockable. My Mrs never touches any of my toolboxes. Others I know have found various hiding places for their pills. PrEP is definitely worthwhile if you wanna bareback.

Thanks so much for your insight and help to the chat. ☺️

Hi I struggle too some days. Plays with my head alot

I found viagara gave me headaches. I'm interested in trying Herbal Ignite.

Try a cock ring before chemicals. A rubber cockring around the base of the balls and penis that’s medium tight keeps me rock hard and also makes my cock more sensitive to the touch.

I think it plays with most guys heads. Most of that is conditioning from our times as kids and teenagers, where ‘men were men and pansies were simply flowers’.
Toxicity was the name of the times - beware of homosexuals, communists, other ethnicities, free thinkers, tree huggers, the list was endless as America (essentially) ruled by fear if you didn’t fit into the ‘two kids and a white picket fence’ aspect.
If you can get to grips with that mindset and accept your own lumps and bumps, it’s incredibly liberating.

Drink a litre (literally at least 1000mls) of warm water before taking the tablet. Stay right away from grapefruit.
Doing those two things means I'm much less likely to get headaches. Definitely do get them though otherwise.

My bi partner has just started massage business and 90% of clients are guys that are secretly bi or just want to be touched because they aren’t getting their needs met at home. So sad that guys can’t be honest about their sexuality but if a woman says she’s interested in finding her bi side men are very much accepting

Thank you. That's a perfect description.

Sounds like a great idea

So true

I was having a wack this morning and I came on my hand everywhere I immediately picked it all of and came so hard instantly again and ate that iswell. It was my first time having my own ... I've had a few of others tho mmmmmmmm

I was a very supple teen and could just get my cock in my mouth, so I tasted my own cum a few times.

Sticking to the topic - married and secretly bisexual - does anybody go to nude beaches in the Auckland and north areas. I’d like yo know more about the places and find out what the process is to meet like minded men.

Nude beaches are great places for secretly bi married men fun.
Just get nude, generally if you are interested when chatting to another nude guy casually touch your cock, if they are interested they will do the same to theirs.
Also if guys are in the dunes, if they stand up so you can see they are nude, then they are interested.

The expectation of me having to initiate cuddles is making me want to come out to her I’m bisexual and tell her to expect me to be absent a lot more to have more men in my life

You can't suppress your desires and urges. I've been Bi 15 years and having men in my life has allowed me to discover my real self and make some very good friends along this journey.

Same with me. I've been hiding my bi secret for about 15 years. I can't control the urge, so why fight it? But sometimes I wish I was brave enough to share the facts of my life. It seems to be the last taboo. Being a gay guy or woman had become so acceptable during my lifetime but I don't know any bi folk, apart from the guys I meet here or on other sites.

The problem we have is how family and existing friends may or may not accept the Bi side of us. In order to not upset anyone or the current lifestyle we choose to stay in the closet. Unfortunately modern day life can be financially crippling in a break up or starting again so we stick with the status quo.

Totally correct. Sharing my story would risk being crippled financially. So a non-starter.

yes that social exposure....
I learned a lesson vicariously back in the 1970's (London, which was quite open minded for the time) Group of guys (all motorcyclists) two of the crowd were sharing a flat, nothing exciting about that) but one night they 'introduced' that they were living together (gay). Once the penny dropped... they lost % of their 'friends' in the group, literally.

fifty% (bloody website)

The problem many have is they can kind of understand the love part but when they learn about a man putting his cock in another then that seems to change their mindset. Maybe they should look at the folsom fair in the US every year. That's full on street sex out in the open. I'd love to go in my lifetime.

from memory, (and over the years listening to) it seems it's being the receiver that gets them... they almost seem to look at doing as a far lesser 'sin'.
The emotional? Yes, initially they thought the guys were saying they had a friendship that we'd call 'Bromance' today.... then they suddenly clicked. It was the instant turn that got me tbh.

I bet there's a lot of so called friendships out there between us Bi guys that are definitely a lot more than just friendships and I'm enjoying every bit of it.

there's a few rider's on the site, so I might be lucky to spark a friendship through the group on here.
I'm not a drinker, clubber, etc so that narrows down my social options.

Have you joined the nzp motorcycle group. It's one of my likes on my profile 😁

yes, and the North Island one thanks you.
Not much activity on them at the moment... twice I tried to sort a ride, when the weather canned it. Once I met another rider socially.

Nice not much activity down here with the wet weather 😆

So agree.

Always keen for a secluded meeting after a bike ride

even getting a ride is a bloody lottery at present.. gorgeous day yesterday? Shyte today. I'm hoping there is one day 'decent' over the weekend, finally picked up the new (to me) bike, and got two new tyres to scrub in..
but at the moment, no screen on it if the weather does turn

Yeh I'm getting old and soft

Yes the weather is worse than trying to win the lottery

Yes the weather is not playing fair, I also have a new to me bike which needs to be riden lol plus my other one sitting there

well I got a small 'blat' in yesterday, about 120km round trip as it has two new tyres on it.. Think I'm going to enjoy this one a lot... it's strange how just a small seating/bar change can effect how a bike feels.
What's you 'new to you' bike?

My bike which had a small change which is a bar riser that's my Kawasaki Versys adventure bike and my new to me is a Triumph Bonneville T100 😆

nice bike the Trumpy... 900 or 1 ?
I've noticed with this 'new' one,, still an FLH, but different sub model, slight seating changes are actually better than the FLHT

The T100 is the 9 and fitted with King queen seat

omg that's 'old school' a king and queen seat... awesome

Yes and more comfortable too

yep, one of my 'musts' is a good sized saddle, if you are doing distance, it's a must.

Wish I could add a pic of my bike

Indeed a good saddle plus a gel pad

yup.... did a few hundred yesterday... the RK will need a gelpad for distances

you're gold, you should be able to upload one easily?

Anyone in Gisborne

Honstley be honst with your partner about you sexuality they will find out eventually and that conversation will be worse to be had having to explain all the covering up and lies. I know its not easy or that simple but for your peace of mind and your partners to find the right time to sit down and have conversation its the right thing to do you never know your partner might be upstanding about it