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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Posted on 6-May-26 1:53AM
Absolutly agree with you.be it round 2,3 or 4 it just gets better.having someone stay the night after some mutually shared pleasure and release is so good because morning wakeup sex is hot as.waking up being spooned or feeling a hard cock pressing against me gets me instantly hard.
Posted on 6-May-26 5:10AM
I think everyone likes that idea
Posted on 7-May-26 12:05AM
Only the ones willing to stay rather than blow and go.laying in the afterglow of the first adventure and drifting to sleep thinking about it and then next morning waking up with a hard on still aroused at the night before and being able to pleasure them again adds another element of sensual pleasure and release.
Comment #778 by youngcock28 in response to Bitimes ( view post )
Posted on 14-May-26 1:45PM
Im like that lol
Comment #779 by Bones24 in response to youngcock28 ( view post )
Posted on 14-May-26 1:46PM
Definitely the same have as much fun while we can
Comment #780 by youngcock28 in response to Bones24 ( view post )
Posted on 15-May-26 12:49PM
Hard out
Posted on 19-May-26 7:35AM
A sleepover has become a bucket list item for me. Waking a guy up sucking on his cock would be fun.

Unfortunately it's finding a good excuse to tell the family why I will be away for a night, or two.
Posted on 19-May-26 10:27AM
Yeathats the hard part but i seem to find a way to get my ass fucked lol
Comment #783 by Tims in response to Willingarse ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 11:42AM
Sneaking away from family is the tricky part!
Comment #784 by Dikme2 in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 1:03PM
Luckily I don't have to any more live alone can host and enjoy sleepovers. A warm tactile sexy body is welcome anytime
Posted on 19-May-26 4:32PM
Yep I know that hassle all too well
Comment #786 by Biandkeen in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 4:39PM
That’s the part of being Bi that sucks. The rest of it is fantastic
Comment #787 by Tims in response to Biandkeen ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 6:14PM
Yeah it sucks. But it also adds a special thrill!
Comment #788 by sledge in response to Biandkeen ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:39AM
Absolutely 👌
Comment #789 by curiousguy-5 in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:26PM
Yes feels very familiar. Quite a few females think of bi guys as been gay guys so its easier on the DL . Harder to find bi guys that can host and/or time restraints due to family/wife commitments. Just wish I could find a bate bud lol
Comment #790 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:30PM
Motorhome is handy
Comment #791 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:37PM
I bet , have been thinking about going mobile too .
Comment #792 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:55PM
Opens up so many more opportunities. Unfortunately also lot's of time wasters
Comment #793 by Tims in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:57PM
Bate bud would be great
Comment #794 by Subbum in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:58PM
What is bate bud?
Comment #795 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:59PM
Wank mate , someone to watch porn with and stroke cocks together , maybe more ...
Comment #796 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:04PM
Thanks. I prefer more
Comment #797 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:07PM
Its actually quite difficult to find a wank mate
Comment #798 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:22PM
It's not easy to find any fun I believe most just want to use this site as porn and don't go any further. Keen as. then wank and dissappear
Comment #799 by Dustnz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 3:20AM
Unfortunately I find the same.
Comment #800 by WRC in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 6:54AM
100% agree
Posted on 21-May-26 10:11AM
Ill be keen
Comment #802 by Dikme2 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 11:56PM
Yes I agree with what you're saying. It's about more than sex. I call those guys " the cum and go guys "
It leaves a nasty feeling behind like you've been scammed.
Comment #803 by Dustnz in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-26 8:27AM
Really i prefer it, i already have a relationship, im just available to be used for sex
Comment #804 by youngcock28 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-26 10:19AM
Yea thats tru the amount of time ive been left waiting and no show
Posted on 22-May-26 11:25AM
There are too many time waisters on this site. Just guys wanting to look at other guys cocks not game enough to meet. A full profile with photos should be must for being on this site
Posted on 22-May-26 12:05PM
Yes it should
Posted on 22-May-26 12:18PM
Where are your photos ????
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Comment #811 by smurfn6969 in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jun-26 4:59AM
It can be hard to meet up especially after long chats but when time allows and a meeting can and does take place , erotic and sexual intimacy that a wife is unable to give
Posted on 5-Jun-26 5:50AM
I agree 💯
Comment #813 by discretepete12 in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jun-26 4:21PM
Ive been with my wife for 14 years, married 6. We have a great sex life, and are love each other, even then something was missing, it wasn't until I realised I loved cock and decided to throw it all on the line and tell her, did I start to feel whole. Now, we're in an open relationship and its never been better.
Comment #814 by Kel in response to discretepete12 ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jun-26 7:21PM
Very brave. I've thought about telling her, but the risk of it going wrong would be appalling.
Comment #815 by Bendover4321 in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Jun-26 3:51PM
Hi I'm very much the same. I get a little time to explore but not a lot.
Comment #816 by Dustnz in response to Kel ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 12:53PM
Yes im the same, it would be disastrous
Posted on 8-Jun-26 1:00PM
She could tell something was up, I wasnt happy/enthusiastic during sex like I usually am and she asked me what was wrong. I told her then, we talked for a bit, she said she was bi curious and it has never been better.
Comment #818 by Me6 in response to discretepete12 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 1:07PM
That's good outcome
Comment #819 by Kel in response to Dustnz ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:07PM
Yep!
Comment #820 by Kel in response to discretepete12 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:08PM
Lucky bugger!
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:47PM
If only all women would understand that some men need cock as bad as cunt if not more
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:50PM
Cock is far more enjoyable than eating a pussy. Especially when the guy has a big noisy orgasim
Comment #823 by Dikme2 in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Jun-26 6:11AM
I agree. I love hearing a noisy orgasm of a man
Comment #824 by Kel in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jun-26 8:12AM
Regrets. A cute guy in the public toilets hit on me last night. But I was in a rush to be somewhere else, so I couldn't stop and play. Regretting that decision now, I should have played and turned up to my appointment late!

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