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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Posted on 25-Sep-25 10:32AM
I really do sympathize with you guys in small towns and rural areas where everyone knows everyone. Trying to keep on the downlow isn't easy compared to the Metro cities. Here in Welly we have private indoor place called Jville Cruise where guys can play in private. Its safe, not sign posted and looks like any other suburban house. Set up and run by a fabulous host. They've put time and money into this place. Lockers for your stuff and wristband keys. Condoms and lube provide. Most guys walk around naked. You can check it out at jvillecruise dot com. Fabulous place to have in Welly.
Posted on 25-Sep-25 12:05PM
Hey there cheers for that
Posted on 25-Sep-25 1:08PM
Great information, thank you for that.
Comment #650 by sledge in response to Bones24 ( view post )
Posted on 26-Sep-25 2:37PM
Yep same problem
Comment #651 by Willingarse in response to sledge ( view post )
Posted on 26-Sep-25 6:02PM
I kind of think that once you find some guys you have an advantage over us town folks of plenty of places to play outside or the back of the barn. Maybe there needs to be some hook ups for travellers?
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Comment #653 by sledge in response to Willingarse ( view post )
Posted on 29-Sep-25 9:18AM
Yep that would be great
Posted on 29-Sep-25 6:12PM
Pitty your not close to me
Posted on 29-Sep-25 6:14PM
But sometimes a trip away is fun
Comment #656 by Toyboy in response to JonS100 ( view post )
Posted on 29-Sep-25 8:36PM
Keen to join too
Comment #657 by blonde38 in response to the main topic
Posted on 29-Sep-25 10:04PM
Hi when i was younger I encourage my partner to play with me Analy, She loved it and suggested I try a man and we both did it I am single now and I will be very upfront about it , I cant live a lie
Comment #658 by sledge in response to Bendover4321 ( view post )
Posted on 30-Sep-25 7:32AM
Absolutely
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Comment #671 by quietlylooking in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:35PM
Hello, just dropping in to say I am keen on a bi man who has a male friend to share
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:38PM
Wow. Sounds great.
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:39PM
Except you are in the wrong city
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:40PM
True. But still reckon I replied correctly.
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:41PM
200% correct
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:44PM
Woohoo lol.
Posted on 16-Oct-25 12:49AM
👋 im around welly cbd if your keen.
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Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:02PM
Sounds fantastic shame we're islands apart 😆
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Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:17PM
Just move to Wellington…
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Posted on 20-Oct-25 2:59PM
Haha yeah nice idea
Posted on 20-Oct-25 3:02PM
If you were in Central Otago would be great
Posted on 21-Oct-25 6:35AM
True but not too far away lol
Posted on 21-Oct-25 12:08PM
Be very happy happy to help with his Bi curiosity
and of course play with those lovely nip as a starter
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Posted on 4-Jan-26 12:16PM
You really need to find someone who travels through your area (for work maybe) on a regular basis?
Comment #691 by sledge in response to KiakahaNZ ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jan-26 5:46AM
That would be perfect
Comment #692 by Firestarter in response to sledge ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jan-26 9:00AM
Wouldn’t it just.
Comment #693 by Dadeo in response to the main topic
Posted on 6-Jan-26 2:20PM
Would love to meet others in Tauranga for some fun..,
Would be nice to share with someone who has a wife like myself
Cool role play comes to mind xx
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Comment #696 by wishbone22 in response to the main topic
Posted on 21-Feb-26 12:12PM
Never been a problem for me. I keep my mind focused on either play or home and don't let them mix.

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