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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Comment #593 by Gaz in response to Bidesires ( view post )
Posted on 19-Apr-25 9:02PM
You are a lucky guy
Posted on 20-Apr-25 12:11AM
Wow you have yourself an amazing wife there as although she doesnt want to be a part of it she clearly loves and respects you enough to give her blessing and not trying to hold you back from exploring.awesome stuff.
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Posted on 22-Apr-25 11:51AM
I agree with the other comments on this, you have an amazing and understanding wife.
I world love to have a wife who was as open to the idea.
Comment #597 by Gaz in response to Glitchtown ( view post )
Posted on 22-Apr-25 1:40PM
Yes it's a complicated life with all this sex stuff!
Comment #598 by Glitchtown in response to Gaz ( view post )
Posted on 22-Apr-25 1:44PM
You are not wrong...
Comment #599 by Gaz in response to Glitchtown ( view post )
Posted on 22-Apr-25 1:49PM
But what an adventure!
Comment #600 by Glitchtown in response to Gaz ( view post )
Posted on 22-Apr-25 1:52PM
For sure, just wish it was a little less complicated.
Comment #601 by Gaz in response to Glitchtown ( view post )
Posted on 22-Apr-25 1:54PM
Agreed. But no pain, no gain! 🤪
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:10PM
I always wanted to go into an alternative nightclub to see what the scene was like when theres multiple possibilities possible rather than meeting someone from a site such as this but could never get the courage so thats one for my bucket list and a personal get over it moment.anyone else thought the same
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:37PM
Just do it you won't regret it
Comment #604 by Gaz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:37PM
I agree
Comment #605 by Subbum in response to Gaz ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:41PM
And if you are straight acting and in the unlikely event that you meet someone who you know they are there for the same reason as you
Comment #606 by Gaz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:41PM
Yep. That's happened to me and we all had fun
Comment #607 by Subbum in response to Gaz ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:44PM
Hasn't happened to me but who could they tell without outing themselves
Comment #608 by Gaz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:46PM
Precisely. He was my daughter's married teacher so we were both pretty safe. The alternative was mutually assured destruction!
Comment #609 by Subbum in response to Gaz ( view post )
Posted on 24-Apr-25 9:50PM
Perfect. Wish I could find a regular nsa straight acting to service me
Posted on 24-Apr-25 10:04PM
I want to transact with you hehe
Comment #611 by Bitimes in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 25-Apr-25 8:30AM
I’m on the look out for a straight acting to service myself and I could service them as well
Comment #612 by Subbum in response to Bitimes ( view post )
Posted on 25-Apr-25 11:59AM
Shame I am based in horowhenua
Comment #613 by InsatiableD in response to Bitimes ( view post )
Posted on 25-Apr-25 1:52PM
I'm in Wellington. Love to be serviced and to service
Comment #614 by Bitimes in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 25-Apr-25 5:12PM
I’m in the waikato
Comment #615 by sledge in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 28-Apr-25 12:19PM
Yep agreed
Posted on 29-Apr-25 5:59AM
💯
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Posted on 30-Apr-25 4:40AM
Wow viewed your pics… MMMmmmmmm yum
Posted on 30-Apr-25 4:46AM
I can't pm you
Posted on 30-Apr-25 4:00PM
Add me
Posted on 30-Apr-25 9:36PM
Add me
Posted on 30-Apr-25 10:43PM
Add me please
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Posted on 23-May-25 8:22AM
Yep would be easier
Comment #629 by Naked2003 in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 16-Jul-25 3:29PM
I have found some very nice bi males in CHCH one especially who is in the same boat as me. We meet whenever possible and enjoy each other's naked bodies and cocks. Neither of us think we are cheating on our partners.
Posted on 16-Jul-25 3:51PM
Maybe you can get a small group together or at least 3 guy's lol
Comment #631 by Kernik in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 16-Jul-25 3:58PM
I agree, I'm in the same boat as you.
Comment #632 by JonS100 in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 17-Jul-25 10:10AM
id like to join that! so shout if you need another :)
Comment #633 by Maizcay in response to Funtimes69 ( view post )
Posted on 17-Jul-25 10:20AM
Now THAT does sound like fun - need to do this in Welly
Comment #634 by Me6 in response to Maizcay ( view post )
Posted on 17-Jul-25 12:23PM
Yes agree to that
Comment #635 by sledge in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 17-Jul-25 2:34PM
Perfect
Posted on 18-Jul-25 11:23AM
I’m keen if you ever want to meet.
Posted on 19-Jul-25 4:05AM
So good. I'm really pleased for you both.
Comment #638 by Alexi7040 in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Aug-25 4:26PM
Jeezuz. First of all, if your Married...why the fk risk it? Either leave the relationship or be straight up with your other half. You sneak around and you will eventually get caught.
Comment #639 by jax12 in response to the main topic
Posted on 2-Aug-25 4:35PM
Well, I have been Married and Experienced stuff. Like I Put on My Wifes wedding Dress and except for the Tits it Fitted and well now its Dream
Posted on 3-Aug-25 8:43AM
You,re a lucky man to have an understanding lady even though she doesnt wish to partake and i wish you all the very best in your discoveries and im sure you will get immense pleasure in doing so
Posted on 3-Aug-25 4:05PM
I wish my wife thought that wsy
Comment #642 by Glitchtown in response to Kernik ( view post )
Posted on 5-Aug-25 3:18PM
For sure, I'm in the same boat.

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