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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Comment #784 by Dikme2 in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 1:03PM
Luckily I don't have to any more live alone can host and enjoy sleepovers. A warm tactile sexy body is welcome anytime
Posted on 19-May-26 4:32PM
Yep I know that hassle all too well
Comment #786 by Biandkeen in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 4:39PM
That’s the part of being Bi that sucks. The rest of it is fantastic
Comment #787 by Tims in response to Biandkeen ( view post )
Posted on 19-May-26 6:14PM
Yeah it sucks. But it also adds a special thrill!
Comment #788 by sledge in response to Biandkeen ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:39AM
Absolutely 👌
Comment #789 by curiousguy-5 in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:26PM
Yes feels very familiar. Quite a few females think of bi guys as been gay guys so its easier on the DL . Harder to find bi guys that can host and/or time restraints due to family/wife commitments. Just wish I could find a bate bud lol
Comment #790 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 7:30PM
Motorhome is handy
Comment #791 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:37PM
I bet , have been thinking about going mobile too .
Comment #792 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:55PM
Opens up so many more opportunities. Unfortunately also lot's of time wasters
Comment #793 by Tims in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:57PM
Bate bud would be great
Comment #794 by Subbum in response to Tims ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:58PM
What is bate bud?
Comment #795 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 8:59PM
Wank mate , someone to watch porn with and stroke cocks together , maybe more ...
Comment #796 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:04PM
Thanks. I prefer more
Comment #797 by curiousguy-5 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:07PM
Its actually quite difficult to find a wank mate
Comment #798 by Subbum in response to curiousguy-5 ( view post )
Posted on 20-May-26 9:22PM
It's not easy to find any fun I believe most just want to use this site as porn and don't go any further. Keen as. then wank and dissappear
Comment #799 by Dustnz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 3:20AM
Unfortunately I find the same.
Comment #800 by WRC in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 6:54AM
100% agree
Posted on 21-May-26 10:11AM
Ill be keen
Comment #802 by Dikme2 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 21-May-26 11:56PM
Yes I agree with what you're saying. It's about more than sex. I call those guys " the cum and go guys "
It leaves a nasty feeling behind like you've been scammed.
Comment #803 by Dustnz in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-26 8:27AM
Really i prefer it, i already have a relationship, im just available to be used for sex
Comment #804 by youngcock28 in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 22-May-26 10:19AM
Yea thats tru the amount of time ive been left waiting and no show
Posted on 22-May-26 11:25AM
There are too many time waisters on this site. Just guys wanting to look at other guys cocks not game enough to meet. A full profile with photos should be must for being on this site
Posted on 22-May-26 12:05PM
Yes it should
Posted on 22-May-26 12:18PM
Where are your photos ????
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Comment #811 by smurfn6969 in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jun-26 4:59AM
It can be hard to meet up especially after long chats but when time allows and a meeting can and does take place , erotic and sexual intimacy that a wife is unable to give
Posted on 5-Jun-26 5:50AM
I agree 💯
Comment #813 by discretepete12 in response to the main topic
Posted on 5-Jun-26 4:21PM
Ive been with my wife for 14 years, married 6. We have a great sex life, and are love each other, even then something was missing, it wasn't until I realised I loved cock and decided to throw it all on the line and tell her, did I start to feel whole. Now, we're in an open relationship and its never been better.
Posted on 5-Jun-26 7:21PM
Very brave. I've thought about telling her, but the risk of it going wrong would be appalling.
Comment #815 by Bendover4321 in response to the main topic
Posted on 7-Jun-26 3:51PM
Hi I'm very much the same. I get a little time to explore but not a lot.
Comment #816 by Dustnz in response to A-cup ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 12:53PM
Yes im the same, it would be disastrous
Posted on 8-Jun-26 1:00PM
She could tell something was up, I wasnt happy/enthusiastic during sex like I usually am and she asked me what was wrong. I told her then, we talked for a bit, she said she was bi curious and it has never been better.
Comment #818 by Me6 in response to discretepete12 ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 1:07PM
That's good outcome
Comment #819 by A-cup in response to Dustnz ( view post )
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:07PM
Yep!
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:08PM
Lucky bugger!
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:47PM
If only all women would understand that some men need cock as bad as cunt if not more
Posted on 8-Jun-26 7:50PM
Cock is far more enjoyable than eating a pussy. Especially when the guy has a big noisy orgasim
Comment #823 by Dikme2 in response to Naked2003 ( view post )
Posted on 9-Jun-26 6:11AM
I agree. I love hearing a noisy orgasm of a man
Comment #824 by A-cup in response to the main topic
Posted on 9-Jun-26 8:12AM
Regrets. A cute guy in the public toilets hit on me last night. But I was in a rush to be somewhere else, so I couldn't stop and play. Regretting that decision now, I should have played and turned up to my appointment late!
Comment #825 by Liker101 in response to A-cup ( view post )
Posted on 1-Jul-26 10:18AM
We're abouts
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:09PM
I told my Mrs of nearly 20 years that I enjoy playing with men and she was fully understanding and lets me do my thing.
Comment #827 by Digger71 in response to Akl_gent ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:12PM
It’s very liberating when your partner lets you swing both ways
Comment #828 by Akl_gent in response to Digger71 ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:18PM
Yes it is indeed.
Comment #829 by Subbum in response to Akl_gent ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:21PM
Brave. And lucky you
Comment #830 by Akl_gent in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:25PM
It took time to work up to it but now I am happy that I did
Comment #831 by Subbum in response to Akl_gent ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:31PM
Pretty sure mine would tell me to fuck off and I would have to sell up
Comment #832 by Akl_gent in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 2-Jul-26 9:33PM
That’s not good, I was worried at first then thought why not just get it out there
Comment #833 by youngcock28 in response to Dikme2 ( view post )
Posted on 5-Jul-26 12:41AM
Tempt me with a good time heheeh

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