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Married and secretly bisexual
Discussion - started by BiCockLuvr, posted on 19-Aug-24 1:11PM
Hi. If you are married and secretly bisexual (like I am ) I'm just wondering how you deal with it mentally? I sometimes struggle with the vitally important secrecy. What about you?

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Posted on 3-Aug-25 8:43AM
You,re a lucky man to have an understanding lady even though she doesnt wish to partake and i wish you all the very best in your discoveries and im sure you will get immense pleasure in doing so
Posted on 3-Aug-25 4:05PM
I wish my wife thought that wsy
Comment #642 by Glitchtown in response to Kernik ( view post )
Posted on 5-Aug-25 3:18PM
For sure, I'm in the same boat.
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Comment #644 by Bendover4321 in response to the main topic
Posted on 25-Sep-25 10:10AM
I struggle as well. I've chatted to a few guys on line lately but it's hard to meet up. In a small town. All I want to do is suck another guy and see what it's like
Posted on 25-Sep-25 10:12AM
I find the same problem , small farming rural communities, just need some fun
Comment #646 by Firestarter in response to Bones24 ( view post )
Posted on 25-Sep-25 10:15AM
Same here. Your pain is felt.
Posted on 25-Sep-25 10:32AM
I really do sympathize with you guys in small towns and rural areas where everyone knows everyone. Trying to keep on the downlow isn't easy compared to the Metro cities. Here in Welly we have private indoor place called Jville Cruise where guys can play in private. Its safe, not sign posted and looks like any other suburban house. Set up and run by a fabulous host. They've put time and money into this place. Lockers for your stuff and wristband keys. Condoms and lube provide. Most guys walk around naked. You can check it out at jvillecruise dot com. Fabulous place to have in Welly.
Posted on 25-Sep-25 12:05PM
Hey there cheers for that
Posted on 25-Sep-25 1:08PM
Great information, thank you for that.
Comment #650 by sledge in response to Bones24 ( view post )
Posted on 26-Sep-25 2:37PM
Yep same problem
Comment #651 by Willingarse in response to sledge ( view post )
Posted on 26-Sep-25 6:02PM
I kind of think that once you find some guys you have an advantage over us town folks of plenty of places to play outside or the back of the barn. Maybe there needs to be some hook ups for travellers?
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Comment #653 by sledge in response to Willingarse ( view post )
Posted on 29-Sep-25 9:18AM
Yep that would be great
Posted on 29-Sep-25 6:12PM
Pitty your not close to me
Posted on 29-Sep-25 6:14PM
But sometimes a trip away is fun
Comment #656 by Toyboy in response to JonS100 ( view post )
Posted on 29-Sep-25 8:36PM
Keen to join too
Comment #657 by blonde38 in response to the main topic
Posted on 29-Sep-25 10:04PM
Hi when i was younger I encourage my partner to play with me Analy, She loved it and suggested I try a man and we both did it I am single now and I will be very upfront about it , I cant live a lie
Comment #658 by sledge in response to Bendover4321 ( view post )
Posted on 30-Sep-25 7:32AM
Absolutely
Comment #659 by Whynotu in response to the main topic
Posted on 3-Oct-25 12:24AM
I'm hoping to do a roadie to Northland later this year or before next Autumn..
I was wondering if anyone en route would be interested in meeting at some point...not talking group fun, just one on one somewhere safe. Has anyone tried this previously? I will be traveling the entire length of the country as I live in the deep south..My preference is sucking...69 even better.!!
Comment #660 by Firestarter in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 5:14AM
Sounds fun. I’d be interested
Comment #661 by kiwikok1000 in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 10:50AM
Im interested. Could be on the road myself
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Comment #663 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 12:44PM
I would be interested during the day
Comment #664 by Whynotu in response to sledge ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 12:51PM
You are in Gisborne I think..? I want to zigzag across the North Island so it's quite possible...I haven't been to East Cape area for 60 years
Comment #665 by sledge in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 12:53PM
Yes in Gisborne during week days works best
Comment #666 by kiwikok1000 in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 2:18PM
Drive up the coast to Tauranga I'll be waiting
Comment #667 by Whynotu in response to kiwikok1000 ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 2:22PM
That is my intended route..
Comment #668 by kiwikok1000 in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 3-Oct-25 2:24PM
Looking forward to meeting you
Comment #669 by Subbum in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 9-Oct-25 2:03AM
I am keen in levin or otaki I can host in my motorhome
Comment #670 by Nzfunz in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 15-Oct-25 6:37PM
I'm based in levin
Comment #671 by quietlylooking in response to the main topic
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:35PM
Hello, just dropping in to say I am keen on a bi man who has a male friend to share
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:38PM
Wow. Sounds great.
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:39PM
Except you are in the wrong city
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:40PM
True. But still reckon I replied correctly.
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:41PM
200% correct
Posted on 15-Oct-25 8:44PM
Woohoo lol.
Posted on 16-Oct-25 12:49AM
👋 im around welly cbd if your keen.
Comment #678 by Whynotu in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 19-Oct-25 3:13PM
Wish I'd known that the last time I drove north,I stayed a night in Levin at a motel..
Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:02PM
Sounds fantastic shame we're islands apart 😆
Comment #680 by Subbum in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:15PM
Well you know for next time
Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:17PM
Just move to Wellington…
Comment #682 by Whynotu in response to Subbum ( view post )
Posted on 19-Oct-25 7:50PM
Which will be sometime late summer,early Autumn...I hope..
Comment #683 by Subbum in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 19-Oct-25 8:57PM
I will be around
Posted on 20-Oct-25 2:59PM
Haha yeah nice idea
Posted on 20-Oct-25 3:02PM
If you were in Central Otago would be great
Posted on 21-Oct-25 6:35AM
True but not too far away lol
Posted on 21-Oct-25 12:08PM
Be very happy happy to help with his Bi curiosity
and of course play with those lovely nip as a starter
Comment #688 by Bary in response to Whynotu ( view post )
Posted on 21-Oct-25 12:35PM
If you're passing through blenheim let me know
Comment #689 by Whynotu in response to Bary ( view post )
Posted on 22-Oct-25 11:54AM
Passed through on way to Picton a few months ago.. Next time driving north I will have no time restrictions so maybe a night or two in Marlborough would be in order..

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