whats going on

looking for top..(if male, versatile if Tgirl)
Little on the chubby side, but going to the gym to try sort that out.
Quite hairy (hirsute) so if you like that, then its all good.
Work during the day, so usually not available then
Disclaimer
Yes I have a partner, no she does not know, if you are not happy with that, then just go about things as per..

What I am looking for..
I figure horny would be a good start (pref versatile/top as I would like to try things, a top tgirl would be a dream cum true, but would also love a vers tgirl)

Just some no strings fun to start
Non judgmental attitude preferred
Age range maybe 30-65ish
I don't have a place to play, so either meet somewhere or your place..(or hotel)
clean and discrete (safe only)
really wanting to meet men/transgender
loves to kiss and cuddle
love lingerie